In the first place, let me give a valuable tip for apologists. Read this blog! Seriously.
Another tip for apologists is to understand what apologetics is and isn’t.
To begin with, apologetics (pre-evangelism) defends Christianity against criticism (1 Pet. 3:15). Additionally, it gives reasons to believe Christianity is the only correct worldview.
These tips will help you successfully present your new faith to outsiders well.
Further, after decades of using apologetics, I have eight suggestions. And each tip for apologists falls into one of two categories.
- First, there are four ways to prepare to do apologetics.
- Second, there are four obstacles to avoid when you are practicing apologetics.
How You Say It
Thoughtfully responding to a non-Christian’s questions is crucial:
- First, because many young adults don’t have a religious affiliation
- Second, because of continuous education and media indoctrination of non-Christian worldviews and relativism
Indeed, remaining gracious while presenting intelligent and engaging answers works to your advantage. As a result, you are likely to attract level-headed unbiased seekers.
As a matter of fact, most people will pay more attention to how you say something than what you say.
Ways to Prepare
For one thing, no one, including young adults, likes to being told they are wrong.
For this reason, when doing apologetics, you need preparation and to avoid potential hazards.
Here are four ways to prepare for reasoning with outsiders.
1. The Essential Tip for Apologists: Prayer
This first tip for apologists is critical. To begin with, prayer prepares your heart and mind for the task ahead.
Moreover, it makes you receptive to the Holy Spirit’s leading. And by all means, pray before, during, and after your interaction with others.
2. Relationship Building is an Important Tip for Apologists
Second, on my list is building genuine and respectful relationships with outsiders. As has been noted, “No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care.”
This tip for apologists means establishing sincere friendships, starting with active listening.
In other words, an apologist should begin by understanding the real question. And only after that, briefly answer them.
In contrast, Christians don’t listen. Instead, they are waiting for our opportunity to give a “canned” mini-lecture.
3. Seek Agreement with Outsiders
Third, find areas of agreement between the other person and you. For example, can you both agree that:
- “Absolute” truth exists
- God exists
- Miracles are possible
- There are ways to find out if a historical event actually occurred.
As a result of discovering points of agreement, you have a starting place.
Obviously, this tip for apologists requires you have an apologetic argument.
For this purpose, I suggest you learn Dr. Norman Geisler’s Classical apologetic model. It undeniably proves the truthfulness of Christianity.
It must be remembered apologetics is preparing the outsider for evangelism.
4. Gospel Message Should Always Accompany Apologetics
My fourth tip for apologists is critical. In brief, pre-evangelism should always accompany sharing the gospel. But in a culturally sensitive way.
As a result, apologetics and evangelism are intimately interwoven. In contrast to evangelism, apologetics is “pre-evangelism.”
In other words, apologetics removes obstacles to accepting Christianity. But salvation comes only through evangelism and the work of the Holy Spirit.
Obstacles to Avoid
Nevertheless, even when we have prepared, we can still have unhelpful conversations.
Here are four tips for apologists on obstacles to avoid.
1. Pride (And Being Offensive) is the Biggest Obstacle
My fifth tip for apologists is perhaps the most common obstacle to success. In a word, pride.
In light of this problem, seek to cultivate intentional humility. For instance, if you don’t know the answer to a question, admit your ignorance and promise to follow up with a reply.
Pre-evangelism is not about winning an argument or showing who is more intelligent.
Instead, seek to be “on the offensive” without being offensive! And as much as possible, aim to shed more “light” than “heat” on any discussion.
For that reason, remain gentle and kind even in the face of challenging people.
As an illustration, some people get frustrated when they can’t answer your questions. Consequently, when they realize their worldview is false, they become argumentative.
In light of their reaction, we should be compassionate. Imagine how you would respond if someone asked you to stop believing in Jesus!
For this reason, if the other person becomes uncomfortable, change topics.
In the meantime, leaving the apologetic discussion and moving on to other issues is best.
As a result, the process of apologetics and sharing the gospel is a marathon, not a sprint.
2. A Second Obstacle is not Depending on the Holy Spirit
My sixth tip for apologists is that your apologetic argument will never save anyone! Basically, salvation is the work of the Holy Spirit.
It is essential to realize that apologetics works at the point of reason. In essence, a “belief that” something is true. But evangelism works at the level of faith. In particular, a “belief in” Jesus through faith.
When it comes to apologetics, there is and set of definite rules.
- First, create genuine friendships.
- Second, specifically, answer the outsider’s question.
- Third, share the gospel.
- Fourth, get out of the way and let the Holy Spirit finish his work.
Intelligent answers never save anyone. It is always Scripture and the Holy Spirit in tandem.
3. The Third Obstacle is not Being Teachable
The seventh tip for apologists is to continue to be a student. There are always things to learn ourselves as an apologist.
Similarly, we need to train other Christians in apologetics. In light of my tips regarding the obstacle of pride, remain transparent.
So that students get a realistic view, readily admit your mistakes and failures.
To rephrase it, our students must never think we always have the perfect answer. To put it differently, my students learn the most when I share my failures rather than successes.
In the event you choose to share your mistakes, others will realize that they do not need to be perfect.
4. Only One Approach
My final tip for apologists is not to fuss over their preferred choice of apologetics.
For instance, there are several different apologetic approaches, including:
- Classical apologetics
- Historical apologetics
- Evidential apologetics
- Presuppositional apologetics
In fact, every technique has proven useful.
For this reason, please avoid unnecessary arguments over which method is best.
On the negative side, when apologists argue over which is best, they look foolish to outsiders. And indeed, we seldom change anyone’s opinion except in a negative way.
What are the Main Takeaways?
In the final analysis, there are a few tips for apologists to remember:
- Remain prayerful
- Stay humble
- Create genuine and respectful relationships.
- Answer specific questions briefly
- Always share the gospel
- Get out of the way for the Holy Spirit to work